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You Are Enough! Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

Updated: May 25







In my book "UnClogged Conduit", I discuss the types of clogs that (1) keep us from receiving ideas, epiphanies and vision and (2) block us from transmitting that revelation to the world around us. As I engage groups in book discussions around

  • Resistor Clogs- when things can't get in

  • Transmitter Clogs- when things can't get out,

the one 'transmitter clog' that attacks many of my readers is the trap of Imposter Syndrome. Do you ever feel that you shouldn't be in a certain room , or at a certain table because you don't have enough ( money, education, clout, or experience)?


Does inadequacy plague you? Does self- doubt shut you down... Clog your flow?

If so, you may be experiencing Imposter Syndrome. What is it and how do you overcome it?



So... What is Imposter Syndrome?


Imposter syndrome is a common phenomenon that affects countless individuals from all walks of life. Despite external accomplishments and recognition, many people struggle with a persistent fear of being exposed as frauds or unworthy of their achievements. However, it's essential to understand that imposter syndrome is a mindset, not a reflection of reality. In this blog, we will delve into the origins of imposter syndrome, explore its impact on individuals, and provide practical strategies to overcome this self-limiting belief.


More Understanding Please!


Imposter syndrome refers to the psychological experience of feeling inadequate and incompetent, despite evidence of success. It often manifests as a fear of being discovered as a fraud, attributing achievements to luck rather than skill or hard work. Recognizing the signs and understanding the underlying causes of imposter syndrome is the first step towards overcoming it."


"I feel like a phony, and at any time, everyone will see me naked!" – UnClogged Conduit

Common Triggers


Imposter syndrome can be triggered by various factors, such as perfectionism, fear of failure, comparison to others, and high expectations. By identifying these triggers in our lives, we can begin to address them and reshape our perspective.

  • Perfectionism is a significant trigger for imposter syndrome. People with imposter feelings often set unrealistically high standards for themselves and believe that anything less than perfection is a failure. They constantly worry that they will be exposed as inadequate or flawed, leading to feelings of anxiety and self-doubt.


  • The fear of failure is another trigger. Individuals experiencing imposter feelings often have an intense fear of making mistakes or not meeting expectations. They may believe that any setback or failure confirms their self-perceived fraudulence, further reinforcing their imposter syndrome.


  • Comparison is perhaps the strongest trigger. Comparing oneself to others, especially in terms of achievements or abilities, can trigger imposter syndrome. When individuals perceive others as more successful or talented, they may feel inferior and believe they don't measure up. This constant comparison can diminish their self-esteem and amplify imposter feelings. Social Media has amplified this trigger's reach and impact.



Challenging Negative Self-Talk


Negative self-talk is a significant contributor to imposter syndrome. Learning to recognize and challenge self-defeating thoughts is crucial for overcoming this mindset. We will explore effective techniques to reframe negative self-talk into positive affirmations that reinforce our true abilities and accomplishments.

  • Recognize: The first step in reframing negative self-talk is to become aware of the negative thoughts as they arise. When you catch yourself engaging in self-doubt or self-criticism, pause and question the validity of those thoughts. Ask yourself for evidence that supports the negative belief and counter it with more realistic and positive perspectives.


  • Replace: Exchange negative Statements with Positive Affirmations. Once you've identified negative thoughts, consciously replace them with positive affirmations. Positive affirmations are statements that emphasize your strengths, abilities, and worthiness.


  • Regroup: Surround Yourself with Supportive People. The people we surround ourselves with can significantly impact our self-perception. Seek out relationships and connections with individuals who believe in you and support your growth.



Strategies for Overcoming the Imposter

Celebrating Achievements

Imposter syndrome often causes individuals to dismiss or downplay their accomplishments. One strategy for overcoming imposter feelings is to intentionally celebrate your personal achievements, both big and small. By acknowledging our successes and giving ourselves credit, we can build confidence and diminish feelings of insignificance.


Embracing Failure and Growth

Imposter syndrome often stems from a fear of failure. A powerful overcoming strategy involves embracing failure as a natural part of the learning and growth process. By reframing failure as an opportunity for growth, we can overcome the fear of making mistakes and develop resilience in the face of challenges.


Practicing Self-Compassion

Self-compassion is a powerful antidote to imposter syndrome. Strategies for cultivating self-compassion include practicing mindfulness, acknowledging our limitations, treating ourselves with kindness and understanding, practicing self- forgiveness, and setting realistic expectations. In addition, it is important to allow others to assist you in loving you! What does that look like? Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or professionals for support when you need it. Share your struggles and allow others to provide comfort and encouragement. Surrounding yourself with a supportive network can reinforce feelings of self-compassion.




What Do I Do Next?


Imposter syndrome may be a common experience, but it doesn't have to define our lives. Building a support network and seeking guidance from mentors can be immensely helpful in overcoming imposter syndrome. Surrounding ourselves with individuals who believe in our abilities and provide constructive feedback can boost our self-assurance and help us navigate self-doubt. Subscribe to our Clarity Community for a family of support, or Join our Clarity Coaching program for customized guidance.



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